Tuesday, August 21, 2012

第一章 学会尊重他人

01.智者满脸微笑,愚者冷若冰霜

02.智者记住别人的名字,愚者希望名字被人记住

03.智者了解别人的心思,愚者表达自己的需要

04.智者善于倾听,愚者没有耐心





第二章 不做无意义的争辩

05.智者先赞同,愚者先否定

06.智者让别人逐步说"是",愚者会引起更多争论

07.智者聪慧幽默,愚者呆板无趣

08.智者知过就改,愚者固执己见




第三章 说话不说破

09.智者委婉建议,愚者直白否定

10.智者不把话说破,愚者单刀直入

11.智者三缄其口,愚者口不择言

12.智者委婉拒绝,愚者冷漠反对





第四章 学会随机应变

13.智者说话看对象,愚者盲目乱开口

14.智者善于察言观色,愚者不会"投其所好"

15.智者看场合,愚者"一根筋"

16.智者谈对方感兴趣的事,愚者说自己感兴趣的事





第五章 做个让人喜欢的人

17.智者低调谦虚,愚者骄傲张狂

18.智者宽容大度,愚者锱铢必较

19.智者诚实可信,愚者虚伪可憎

20.智者照顾他人的自重感,愚者满足自己的虚荣心




第六章 关心他人,快乐自己

21.智者细微处关心他人,愚者处处为自己打算

22.智者善意赞美,愚者乐于批评

23.智者给人以激励,愚者给人泼冷水

24.智者善于替人解围,愚者遇事避而远之





第七章 高效率做事

25.智者目标明确,愚者糊涂度日

26.智者善于制订计划,愚者眉毛胡子一把抓

27.智者与人有效合作,愚者喜欢单打独斗

28.智者挖掘自身潜能,愚者只会埋头苦干



第八章 行动成就梦想

29.智者付诸行动,愚者耽于幻想

30.智者雷厉风行,愚者拖沓懒惰

31.智者标新立异,愚者盲目从众

32.智者未雨绸缪,愚者亡羊补牢





第九章 不钻生活牛角尖

33.智者淡然看待得失,愚者为名为利所累

34.智者懂得放弃,愚者牢记忧伤

35.智者改善自己的弱点,愚者埋怨自己的短处

36.智者知道变通,愚者死钻牛角





第十章 信心是照亮成功的阳光

37.智者不为打翻的牛奶哭泣,愚者常常拿过失处罚自己

38.智者克服自卑,愚者被自卑俘虏

39.智者对充满热忱,愚者缺乏激情

40.智者为最坏的结果做准备,愚者凡事总往最坏处乱想




第十一章 别和工作过不去

41.智者创造机遇,愚者等待好运

42.智者靠智慧工作,愚者靠体力做事

43.智者热爱自己的工作,愚者在工作中变得麻木

44.智者懂得休息,愚者堪称工作狂





第十二章 享受生活,享受快乐

45.智者给心灵放假,愚者让心弦紧绷

46.智者驾驭金钱,愚者被金钱束缚

47.智者过好每一天,愚者浪费好时光

48.智者感受快乐点滴,愚者总是不快乐

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

"Follow the road map of life."

"Follow the road map of life."

      The best way to achieve your goal is to have one in the first place! 

      As obvious as it sounds, there are plenty of people who have no real goal in life. When asked, they'll answer that their aim is to "be happy." But what does that really mean? 

      To achieve what you want in life, you need to set goals. If you don't have direction, you have nothing to aim for. Without a target, you are shooting blanks into the wind. Real desires are solid, not nebulous and vague. How can you hope to achieve if you have nothing to shoot for? 

      Be definite! Set well-defined goals. As you do, you will discover a map to a better life. It doesn't matter if these goals are small, at first. They are still goals, and when you achieve them, you can move onto the next one with a sense of confidence.

       Set an achievable goal, today, and relish journeying toward your destination

 

"Concentrate on the few, not the many."

       You can think of many things that you want to change or achieve. The problem is, when you set out to do too many things at once, nothing gets the full attention it needs - and, in the end, very little is accomplished.

       To succeed, you need to set priorities. Choose only one or two things that you want to achieve. Concentrate your efforts exclusively on these goals. Very quickly your efficiency will soar and you will see results.

       ~~Jane Powell

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

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Thought for Today, Monday, January 23, 2012 [1 Update]
THE DAILY MOTIVATOR - Never Regret [1 Update]
May all beings have forgiveness in their hearts! [1 Update]
Twelve Ways to Keep Smiling ! [1 Update]

 Thought for Today, Monday, January 23, 2012

"Marcella Porretta" <marcellaporretta@rogers.com> Jan 23 09:27PM -0500

Thought for Today,
Monday, January 23, 2012

"Holding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense
muscles, a headache and a sore jaw from clenching your teeth.
Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and the lightness in your
life."

~~Joan Lunden


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 THE DAILY MOTIVATOR - Never Regret

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THE DAILY MOTIVATOR

Never Regret
+++++++++++++++++++

You will never regret genuine kindness. You will never regret
making the most of whatever is available to you.

Though it may be painful at the time, you will never regret
being truthful. And you will never regret giving your best
effort to whatever task is at hand.

You will never regret the time you spend with those you
love. And whether or not it is appreciated, you will never
regret giving a helping hand to those in need.

You will never regret taking time to enjoy life's beauty.
You won't regret the time you take to learn.

When faced with a difficult situation, you'll never regret
choosing the most positive way forward. And even though they
will demand much of you, you will not regret taking on the
meaningful challenges.

Live true to who you are, and true to your highest
possibilities. Though you won't avoid all of life's
difficulties, you can avoid the painful regrets.

Ralph Marston

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 May all beings have forgiveness in their hearts!

"Marcella Porretta" <marcellaporretta@rogers.com> Jan 23 09:11PM -0500

May all beings have forgiveness in their hearts!

May I have forgiveness in my heart for anything I think I've done wrong.

May I forgive myself for what I think were all my past omissions and
commissions. They are long gone. I understand that I was a different
person then and this one is forgiving the one that I was. May I feel
the forgiveness filling me and enveloping me with a sense of warmth
and ease.

May I forgive my parents for anything I have ever blamed them for. May
I understand that they, too, are different now. May this forgiveness
fill them and surround them, and may I know in my heart that this is
my most wonderful way of togetherness.

May I forgive my nearest and dearest people for anything that I think
they have done wrong or are doing wrong at this time. May they feel
that I accept them. May that forgiveness fill them, realizing that
this is my expression of love. May I forgive my friends for anything I
have disliked about them. May my forgiveness reach out to them so that
they can be filled with it and embraced by it.

May I forgive the people I know, whoever they might be, for whatever
it is that I have blamed them for, for what I have judged them for, or
for what I have disliked. May my forgiveness fill their hearts, and
surround and envelope them with it, and let it be my expression of
love for them.

May I forgive fully any special person towards whom I still have
resentment, rejection, or dislike. May I remember that everyone is
suffering. May this forgiveness come from my heart and reach out to
that person completely and totally. May I forgive any one person, or
any situation, or any group of people, whom I am condemning, blaming,
or disliking. May my forgiveness be my expression of unconditional
love. They may not do what I think are the right things.

May I remember that all human beings are suffering and that my heart
needs forgiveness in order to have purity of love. May I look again
and see whether there's still anyone or anything anywhere in the world
that I blame or condemn. May I forgive them so that there is no
separation in my heart.

May I put my attention back on myself and recognize the goodness in me
and the effort I am making. May I feel the warmth and ease that comes
from my forgiveness. May all beings have forgiveness in their hearts.


Marcella
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People will forget what you did,
But people will never forget how you made them feel"

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 Twelve Ways to Keep Smiling !

"Marcella Porretta" <marcellaporretta@rogers.com> Jan 23 09:07PM -0500

Twelve Ways to Keep Smiling !

Hold on to your dreams and never let them go.

Show the rest of the world how wonderful you are !

Give circumstances a chance , and give others the benefit


of the doubt.

Wish on a star that shines in your sky.

Take on your problems one by one and work things out.

Rely on all the strength you have inside.

Let loose of the sparkle and spirit that you sometimes try


to hide.

Stay in touch with those who touch your life with love.

Look on the bright side and don't let the losers keep you


from winning.

Be yourself, because you are filled with special qualities


that have brought you this far and that will always see you


through.

Keep your spirits up.

Marcella
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People will forget what you did,
But people will never forget how you made them feel"

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