Truly impressive

Wednesday, November 21, 2007

Truly impressive
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Always know that what other people think of you is their own
concern, not yours. Do what you know is right, and fully
accept that others will think what they will think.

Certainly it is valuable to make a good impression. Keep in
mind, though, that the best way to make a good impression is
not to worry endlessly about what others think.

The way to make the best impression is to be authentic.
Allow the goodness that is within you to shine through your
genuine courtesy, kindness, respect and consideration.

By caring so much about receiving validation from others,
you prevent yourself from getting it. Instead, share your
real value with those around you and that value will be
clear for all to see.

Don't waste your time and effort keeping up appearances. Put
your attention and energy into real solid substance, and
your appearance will take care of itself.

The more you strive to make a good impression, the less
successful you'll be at doing so. Just relax and be
yourself, and you'll be truly and authentically impressive.

Ralph Marston